I was reading a magazine some years ago and I came across a quotable quote, which said: “To provide them with brighter future, give them hope.” I have already forgotten who said those words and in what event, but the statement came to mind when I think of Dr. Mae Concepcion J. Dolendo.
Most of those from Davao City know her. She is the driving force behind the House of Hope, which is inside the Southern Philippines Medical Center (SPMC), the largest public hospital in Mindanao. By being the instrument of building the house, she doesn’t only give hope to children with cancer, she provides them a shelter.
To think, Dr. Dolendo was not born in Davao City; she’s originally from Iloilo. She came to the country’s largest city because of her husband, Engr. Gabriel de la Cruz Dolendo. She met him during the national conference convened by YMCA Rizal Youth Leadership Training Institute.
Dr. Dolendo is a woman who, once she’s sure about it, devotes her time. Being a wife and mother, she gives her time to her husband and two children. If you can only see her together with them, she’s the most contended woman—happy and fulfilled.
When it comes to work, she’s at her best and palpable when she’s with the children who are afflicted with cancer. “The types of cancer that we see in children are different from adults,” Dr. Dolendo told us in one of our interviews.
Worldwide, 175,000 children are diagnosed with cancer each year, according to the US-based Saint Baldrick’s Foundation, which works closely with leading American pediatric oncologists. In the United States more children die of childhood cancer than any other disease—more than Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), asthma, cystic fibrosis, congenital anomalies and diabetes combined.
“Two-thirds of children treated for childhood cancer will suffer long-term effects from treatment including loss of hearing and sight, heart disease, secondary cancers, learning disabilities, infertility and more,” the foundation pointed out.
Cancer is a rare disease among children, occurring in only 1 of 5,000 children every year. “Childhood cancers are usually embryonal or deep-seated and aggressive while adult cancers are epithelial in origin and can be slow growing,” Dr. Dolendo explained. Epithelial tissue, which is made up of cells closely packed and range in one or more layers, covers the whole surface of the human body.
“In contrast to many adult cancers,” noted The Merck Manual of Medical Information, “cancers in children tend to be much curable.” In fact, the overall outlook for children with cancer has improved greatly over the last half-century.
“In 1975 just over 50 percent of children diagnosed with cancer before age 20 years survived at least five years,” reported the US National Cancer Institute (NCI). “In 2004 to 2010 more than 80 percent of children diagnosed with cancer before age 20 years survived at least five years.”
Childhood cancer isn’t just one disease. “There are over a dozen types of childhood cancer and countless subtypes, each requiring specific research to develop the best treatment for every child,” said Saint Baldrick’s Foundation.
The most common cancers of children are leukemia, brain and other central nervous system tumors, neuroblastoma (a cancer that grows in parts of the nervous system), Wilms’ tumor (a specific kind of cancer of the kidneys), lymphoma (including both Hodgkin and non-Hodgkin), rhabdomyosarcoma (the most common type of soft tissue sarcoma in children), retinoblastoma (a cancer of the retina, the light-sensing area at the back of the eye) and bone cancer (including osteosarcoma and Ewing sarcoma).
Unlike adult cancers, childhood cancers are not given much prominence. “I think childhood cancer is a significant problem among Filipinos because we have a relatively young population and children comprise 40 percent of our population,” Dr. Dolendo lamented.
“I would like to point out, though, that childhood cancer is still relatively uncommon, accounting to only 10 percent of all cancers and 90 percent being adult cancers,” she adds. “In Mindanao we expect about 1,000 new cases to be diagnosed every year.”
Unfortunately, of the 1,000 news cases annually, only 200 to 250 are diagnosed and able to access treatment.
Although childhood cancer is curable, Dr. Dolendo said the treatment may take several months and even years for some. “I think one of the major stumbling blocks in the treatment and cure among children with cancer is the lack of access to health care institutions that can provide multispecialty care,” she said.
The Merck Manual of Medical Information shared this idea: “It is difficult for the health-care team and the family to maintain a sense of normalcy for the child, especially considering the child’s frequent hospitalizations and office visits for treatment of the cancer and its complications. Overwhelming stress is typical, as parents struggle to continue to work, be attentive to siblings and still attend to the many needs of the child with cancer.”
There’s an interesting story on how House of Hope came to be.
“When I came back from training in 2004, it was very difficult to help patients because, despite the fact that I know how to treat them, the majority of patients had difficulty coming for treatment. Chemotherapy medicines are expensive and treatment protocols are long term. Many patients often drop out of treatment or out rightly refuse further treatment.
“I had many friends who wanted to help and I thought it was appropriate to have a charity organization where this help could be channeled,” she said on how Davao Children’s Cancer Fund Inc. (DCCFI) came into fruition. It was SEC-registered on May 4, 2004.
In 2007 the House of Hope, a single-floor facility with seven rooms, was launched. Two caregivers are allowed for each patient; the caregivers help keep the house and its environment clean in exchange for a free stay.
Those who stay at the House of Hope are not only from the far-flung places of Davao region; some come from provinces as far as Zamboanga, Cotabato, Saranggani and Surigao. “In fact, there are those from the Visayas and even from Luzon who came here for treatment,” Dr. Dolendo said.
“We monitor our patients closely after treatment,” she said. “Chances of relapse is higher during the first two years and we sigh with relief after five years but we consider 10 years without relapse as cure.”
Unlike adult cancers, childhood cancers are not given much prominence. “I think childhood cancer is a significant problem among Filipinos because we have a relatively young population and children comprise 40 percent of our population,” Dr. Dolendo deplored.
Some few years ago, Dr. Dolendo was given the Datu Bago award for “her outstanding work in pediatric oncology.” The citation added that she has placed Davao City in the world map of pediatric oncology “due to her international linkages.”
“I am deeply honored and truly humbled,” she said of the recognition. “It means I have contributed something significant to Davao City, my home. It means a bigger voice, hope and inspiration for the children I advocate for and the people who tirelessly work for these children.”
Indeed, she has gone a long, long way. She dreamed of becoming a physician when she was only 9 years old. “There was no doctor in the family but the father of my classmate was a doctor and I thought it was such a cool job looking after sick people and making them well,” she recalled.
Her dream even became stronger when her beloved mother died of breast cancer. She was 17 at that time. “It was a difficult, life-changing experience that maybe led me to where I am now,” she admitted.